34 year old Woman in Oklahoma City, Oklahoma, United States Looking For: Men for 1-on-1 sex, Discreet Relationship or Other "Alternative" Activities
The feel of hot wax dripped over my body and the sting of a cold leather flogger... The smell of fresh blood seeping from the surface of your skin after an amazing scene....The vibration of a tattoo needle as it goes deeper and deeper into my flesh...The smell of a recently fired gun...The taste of your kiss lingering on my lips...The butterflies in my stomach when you walk into the room...The way my entire body shakes when I have an orgasm, and listening to you moan as you explode inside of me...
***IF YOU ARE OLD ENOUGH TO BE MY FATHER OR MY GRANDFATHER, PLEASE DON'T WASTE YOUR TIME!!!***
What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A bed, A rollercoaster, The beach, A moving vehicle (i.e. car), The middle of a park, An airplane, A dark back alley, A movie theatre, The stands at a sporting event, A remote wilderness spot, Under a waterfall, My desk at work, A swimming pool or hot tub, A store dressing room, An elevator, A hotel room, At a nightclub, Anywhere, This list could go on and on!
What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Sadomasochism, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Urolagnia (Water Sports/Urine), Rimming, Fetishes, Light Bondage, Hard Bondage, Candle Wax, Spanking, Slave/Master, Mutual Masturbation, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Breast/Nipple Torture, Clamps, etc., Blindfolds, Leather, Latex, Massage
Though I like sharing my hot wife, my situation is a bit different.
What turns me on the most is not so much sharing her, its showing her off and looking at her. I like watching her with others (girl, guy, couple) but it isn't really about the sex. Its seeing her let go of insecurities and inhibitions and just having fun and knowing other people admire her as a good looking, sexy woman and not just as the nice sweet person she is. I also like being watched while we have sex. My turn on is basically having other people look at her and admire her like I do. She modeled for me for a nude photo project in the past and I love showing the pictures to others. I love when she wears tight or see-thru clothes when we go out. I like catching other people looking at her chest or her ass. It doesn't bother me at all when people approach her at bars or flirt as long as they're not pushy or disrespectful.
I have a larger than normal porn collection on my PC but I only collect porn that reminds me of her. When I jerk off, I always fantasize about her and look at pictures of her. I never fantasize about other women unless its her and them together. Sometimes during sex she likes to talk dirty and tells me about her fascination with tits and being with other girls. Being with another guy or two guys at once isn't really a major fantasy she is working to fulfill(but she's okay with it). Her fantasy when it comes to guys (which strangely really turns me on), is flirting with, seducing, and finally taking care of, a quiet shy guy who hasn't had sex or a girlfriend in a long time. She fantasizes about doing it alone but I get turned on at the idea of watching it happen. I don't need to be involved and would even like to watch from across the room while I jerk off or secretly watch from a closet or keyhole. I often think about taking her clothes off and fooling around with her while a guy watches and touches himself. Eventually she asks me if she could help him out a little, watch her move to him, grab him and go down on him.
We've been to swing clubs a couple of times but didn't play with others. I wanted to, but she got nervous. It didn't matter anyway because what got me off was seeing others admiring her naked body, watching us have sex, and her feeling safe to focus only on her own sexual pleasure. She doesn't see herself as attractive or desirable to others (but she's hot and everyone thinks so). At home we experimented with threesomes twice. First time with another guy and second time with a girl. Once we also fooled around with another mature swinger couple. My favorite parts of all those times were seeing her with another guy. Isn't that weird? I mean, I like watching her with another girl and I liked being able to play with another girl, but seeing her was the hottest.
Sorry for rambling so long... In a nutshell, seeing my wife's body and showing off her beauty to others is my fetish. Nothing is sexier than imagining her believing she's hot and desirable and not afraid to be sexually aggressive and fulfill her sexual fantasies. I don't see it as, or want her treated as, a slut or whore. Instead I see it as showing her that she is still sexy and desired by others as well as let other people experience, appreciate, and ultimately envy what I have.
posted by: nycmetro (reply)